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Imbere y’uko umwana avayo mu rugo

Hari uwipfuje gutwara umwana ku mashure, ku kazi canke ubuzima bwiza? Banza ubisuzume neza.

• Amafaranga canke impano ku mwana ashobora guhinduka ideni basaba ko umwana arihereza akazi.
• Abacuruza abana akenshi baramenywa gake n’umuryango: umubanyi, incuti ya kure, umwigisha canke umuhuza.
• Ishure ry’ukuri rifise izina, aderesi na nimero ya terefone ushobora kwemeza wewe ubwawe.
• Niwunanirwa guhamagara canke kugendera, nta wuzomenya nimba umwana akomerekejwe canke akoreshejwe ku kazi.
• Uwufise impapuro z’umwana arashobora kumuganza. Wikwigera utanga imporiginali; zigumane.
• Iyo ari kure y’urugo, umwana ntashobora gusaba imfashanyo canke kugaruka wenyene.
• Abana bakunda basezeranwa ishure, hanyuma bagakorishwa amasaha menshi ku gahemba gatoyi canke ata gahemba.
• Abantu b’inyangamugayo ntibasaba na rimwe kubika urugendo rw’umwana mu mpisho canke kubesha imyaka y’umwana.

Umugambi w’umutekano w’umuryango

• Banza ugendere aho hantu, canke usabe umuntu wizigira ahahari ngo ahagenzure.
• Shaka izina ryuzuye, aderesi n’umurongo wa terefone w’uwo muntu n’aho hantu. Ni wowe ubwawe uhamagare ishure.
• Mwemeranye guhamagara rimwe mu ndwi, kandi mubemere ijambo ry’ibanga umwana ashobora kuvuga igihe afise ikibazo.
• Bika impapuro z’umwana z’inyoriginale. Tanga ama fotokopi gusa.
• Fata ishusho y’umwana isa neza imbere y’uko agenda.
• wigishe umwana kwibuka ku mutwe nimero ya terefone yawe, hamwe n’inimero y’ugutabara abana.
• Niwigere wakira amafaranga canke ingurane ku mwana. Umwana si ideni.

Impapuro n’ishure birakingira umwana

• Mwandikishe ivuka ry'umwana wese. Ikarata y'ivuka yerekana imyaka y'umwana: ifasha guhagarika ubugeni bw'abana n'akazi k'abana, kandi ifasha umwana kuronka ishure, amagara meza n'ubufasha. Mubaze ku biro vy'ubutegetsi hafi yanyu canke ku kigo c'amagara meza.
• Mugumize abana ku ishure. Mubaze ishure canke ibiro vy’ubutegetsi hafi yanyu ivy’ufasha ku mafaranga y’ishure, nk’ukugabirwa amafaranga, imfungurwa ku ishure canke gufasha imiryango. Mu bihugu vyinshi birahari.

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Ubugeni bw’umwana atarashika 18?

• Rindira gushika 18. Imyaka mike y’ishure y’inyongera irashobora guhindura ubuzima bwose.
• Baza uwo mukiri muto ico ashaka, mu kwiyagaza wenyene kandi ata kumuhata.
• Vugana n’umwarimu, umukozi w’amagara y’abantu, umushumba w’ukwizera wizeye, canke umurongo w’ugutabara abana.
• Ntuzigere wakira amahera, canke kwishyurirwa ideni, ku mwana.
• Mu bihugu vyinshi, itegeko rishira imyaka 18 nk’imyaka yo gushaka.

Umutekano mu mikino no mu biganiro

Imikino n’ama app yo kuganira birashimisha. Abakuze bamwe barabikoresha kugira batsindagize urwaruka. Menya uko babigira:

• Abantu bari kuri internet saho bose bamera uko biyitirira. Imyaka n’amafoto birashobora kuba vy’ibinyoma.
• Impano, diamonds, coins, skins canke ama inite yo kuri telephone uhabwa n’utazi ni uburyarya bugusunika kwiyumva ko ubabereyeko.
• Umuntu agusaba kubika ibanga uvuye ku bavyeyi bawe si uwo kwizerwa.
• Ntuzigera urungika amafoto y’umubiri wawe, n’iyo woba ukunda uwo muntu. Amafoto arashobora gukopororwa bakayakoresha kukugera ubwoba.
• Gumiza ibiganiro imbere mu mukino canke mu app. Wibere maso igihe umuntu agushaka kukuganiriza ukwiwe canke kuguhamagara kuri video.
• Ntuzigera uhurira n’uwo mwamenyaniye kuri internet wenyene. Banza ubibwire umuvyeyi.
• Urashobora guhakana, kubuza kwandikira no gutanga ikirego igihe cose. Ntusabwa kuba umunyamico ku muntu agutera ubwoba.
• Nimba hari ikintu wiyumvamwo nabi, bwira umukuriye akomeye. Ntuzohanwa.

Hari uwanteye ubwoba ku mafoto yanje

Ubumbere: si ikosa ryawe, kandi nturi mu ngorane. Abasore n’inkumi benshi barabibona, kandi birahagarara.

• Nturihe kandi nturungike ikindi na kimwe. Kwishura akenshi bitera gusabwa ibindi bindi.
• Hagarika gusubiza. Ntugahave uja mu majambo canke gusaba imbabazi.
• Fata screenshots z’ugutera ubwoba n’izina rya konte. Ntuzofate screenshots z’amafoto nyene.
• Funga kandi ubikore raporo kuri konte muri app.
• Bwira umuntu mukuru wizewe uno musi: umuvyeyi, umwigisha canke uwo mu muryango wizeye.

Urashobora kandi kubibwira igipolisi canke umurongo w’ubufasha ku bana. Nugezaneyo screenshots.

Umwana ashobora kuba ari mu kaga

Ibimenyetso vyerekana ko umwana ashobora kuba ari mu bucuruzi bw’abantu canke ariko arakorerwa amaronko nabi:

• Arakora amasaha menshi, nijoro, canke mu kibanza co kuja ku ishure
• Umuntu mukuru ni we ahora asubiriza umwana, canke ntahora amureka wenyene
• Aboneka atinya, ashonje canke ananiwe cane, canke afise ibikomere bitagira uwabisigura
• Abana n’abantu atari abo mu muryango kandi nta ma telephone yo kuvugana n’iwabo afise
• Nta mpapuro ziwe bwite afise, canke avuga ko abereyemwo ideni
• Agenzurwa n’umuntu mukuru, ahari abantu canke kuri internet

Ivyo gukora

• Nimba umwana ari mu kaga ubu nyene, hamagara nimero y’imboneza.
• Ntuzohagarare imbere y’abo bakuze canke ngo ugerageze gukiza umwana wewe ubwawe. Bishobora kurushiriza gushira umwana mu kaga.
• Andika ivyo wabonye: igihe, aho vyabereye, n’ukuntu umwana n’abo bakuze basa.
• Hamagara umurongo w’ubufasha ku bana canke igipolisi, canke andika hano raporo.

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