Khusela abantwana
Uluhlu lwezinto abazali mabazijonge phambi kokuba umntwana aphume ekhaya okanye atshate esemncinci, uncedo kulutsha xa umntu kwi-intanethi ecel’ iifoto okanye iimfihlo, nento omawuyenze xa umntwana enokuba semngciphekweni.
Phambi kokuba umntwana ahambe ekhaya
Kukho umntu ofuna ukuthatha umntwana aye esikolweni, emsebenzini okanye ebomini obungcono? Qinisekisa kuqala.
- Imali okanye izipho zomntwana zingajika zibe ityala umntwana anyanzelwe alihlawule ngokusebenza.
- Abantu abahambisa abantwana bahlala besaziwa kancinane lusapho: ummelwane, isizalwana esikude, ootitshala okanye umthengisi.
- Isikolo sokwenene sinigama, idilesi nenombolo yefowuni onokuyiqinisekisa ngokwakho.
- Ukuba aninakumfowunela okanye nimumtyelela, akakho uya kwazi ukuba umntwana wonzakele okanye uyanyanzelwa asebenze.
- Nabani na ophethe amaxwebhu omntwana unokulawula umntwana. Zigcineni ezona kopi zantlandlolo nina.
- Kude nasekhaya, umntwana akanakucela uncedo okanye abuye yedwa.
- Abantwana badla ngokuthethiswa isikolo, baze banyanzeleke basebenze iiyure ezininzi bengaholwanga okanye beholwe kancinci.
- Abantu abathembekileyo abasokuze bacelise ukuba uhambo lomntwana lube yimfihlo okanye nixelwe ubuxoki ngeminyaka yomntwana.
Isicwangciso sokhuseleko losapho
- Ndwendwela indawo kuqala, okanye ucele umntu omthembileyo okule ndawo ayindwendwele.
- Fumana igama elipheleleyo, idilesi nenombolo yefowuni yaloo mntu nendawo. Fowunela isikolo wena ngokwakho.
- Vumelanani ngomnxeba kube kanye ngeveki, neligama lemfihlo umntwana anokulithetha xa esengxakini.
- Gcina amaxwebhu emntwana oqobo. Nika iikopi kuphela.
- Thatha ifoto ecacileyo yomntwana phambi kokuba ahambe.
- Fundisa umntwana inombolo yakho yefowuni ayikhumbule, kunye nenombolo yocingo loncedo lwabantwana.
- Ungaze wamkele imali okanye mboleko ngomntwana. Umntwana asityala-mali.
Amaxwebhu nesikolo zikhusela umntwana
- Bhalisani ukuzalwa komntwana ngamnye. Isatifiketi sokuzalwa sibonisa iminyaka yomntwana: sinceda ukumisa umtshato wabantwana kunye nomsebenzi wabantwana, kwaye sinceda umntwana afumane isikolo, unyango noncedo. Buza kwiofisi karhulumente wengingqi okanye kwiziko lezempilo.
- Gcina abantwana besesikolweni. Buza esikolweni okanye kwiofisi karhulumente wengingqi ngoncedo kwiindleko zesikolo, ezifana nokuxolelwa iifizi, ukutya kwesikolo okanye inkxaso kwiintsapho. Amazwe amaninzi analo olu ncedo.
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Ukufunda iBhayibhile kwemihla ngemihla okufutshane, kunye nendlela enye yokukhusela abantwana yonke imihla.
Umtshato womntu ongekazalisa iminyaka eli-18?
- Lindani de kube yi-18. Iminyaka embalwa yesikolo eyongezelelekileyo ingatshintsha ubomi bonke.
- Buza umntu oselula into ayifunayo, umpheke bodwa uze ungamxinzi.
- Thetha notitshala, umongikazi okanye igosa lezempilo, inkokheli yeenkolo oyithembayo, okanye umnxeba woncedo lwabantwana.
- Ungaze wamkele imali, okanye intlawulo yetyala, ngomntwana.
- Kumazwe amaninzi, umthetho ubeka i-18 njengeminyaka yomtshato.
Khuseleko kwimidlalo nasezincokweni
Imidlalo neenkqubo zencoko ziyonwabisa. Abanye abantu abadala bazisebenzisa ukukhohlisa abatsha. Yazi amaqhinga abo:
- Abantu abakwi-intanethi abasoloko beloo bantu bazibiza njalo. Iminyaka neefoto zingaba zezobuxoki.
- Izipho, iidayimani, iikhoyini, iiskin okanye ikhredithi yefowuni evela kumntu ongamaziyo ligalelo lokukwenza uzive unezikweletu kuye.
- Nabani na ocele imfihlo kubazali bakho akakhuselekanga.
- Ungaze uthumele iifoto zomzimba wakho, nokuba kumntu omthandayo. Iifoto zingakhutshelwa zize zisetyenziswe ukukoyikisa.
- Gcina iincoko ngaphakathi komdlalo okanye i-app. Lumka xa umntu efuna incoko yabucala okanye umnxeba wevidiyo.
- Ungaze udibane nomntu owaziyo kwi-intanethi wedwa. Xelela umzali kuqala.
- Ungasoloko uthi hayi, uvale uze uxele. Akufuneki ube nobubele kumntu okukoyikisa.
- Ukuba into ivakala ingalunganga, xelela umdala okhuselekileyo. Akuyi kufumana ingxaki.
Kukho othintela ngeefoto zam
Okokuqala: asisosiphoso sakho, kwaye awukho enkathazweni. Ulutsha oluninzi lujongana noku, kwaye kunokumiswa.
- Musa ukuhlawula uze ungathumeli nto ingakumbi. Ukuhlawula phantse kuhlala kukhokelela kwezinye iimfuno ezingakumbi.
- Yeka ukuphendula. Musa ukuxabana okanye ukucenga.
- Thatha ii-screenshot zosongelo kunye negama le-akhawunti. Ungaze uthathe ii-screenshot zee foto ngokwazo.
- Vimba uze uxele ingxelo kwi-app.
- Xelela umntu omdala okhuselekileyo namhlanje: umzali, utitshala okanye isalamane osithemba.
Ukuba ucinga ukuzilimaza, tsalela umnxeba wenkonzo yoncedo okanye xelela umntu ngoku. Ubomi bakho bubalulekile ngaphezu kwazo naziphi na iifoto.
Ngaba ubungaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 kule foto okanye ividiyo?Take It Down yinkonzo yasimahla yeefoto nevidiyo ezingenambatho okanye ezesondo ezathathwa phambi kokuba ube neminyaka eli-18. Inceda ukumisa ukusasazeka kwazo kwi-app ezininzi, kwaye iifoto zakho zihlala kwiselfowuni yakho.
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Ungakuxela nakumapolisa okanye kumgca woncedo wabantwana. Zisa ii-screenshot zakho.
Umntwana usenokuba semngciphekweni
Iimpawu zokuba umntwana usenokuthunjwa okanye exhatshazwa:
- Usebenza iiyure ezininzi, ebusuku, okanye endaweni yokuya esikolweni
- Umntu omdala uhlala ephendulela umntwana, okanye akasoze amshiye yedwa
- Ubonakala esoyika, elambile okanye ekudinwe kakhulu, okanye unemivandedwa engenacaciso
- Uhlala nabantu abangengomzi wakhe aze angabi noqhagamshelwano nasekhaya
- Akanazo iiphepha zakhe, okanye uthi unobolekiso lemali
- Ulawulwa ngumntu omdala, esidlangalaleni okanye kwi-intanethi
Ongamawenze
- Ukuba umntwana usemngciphekweni ngoku, biza inombolo yongxamiseko.
- Ungajongani nabantu abadala okanye uzame ukubakhulula umntwana wedwa. Oku kungamfaka umntwana emngciphekweni omkhulu.
- Bhala phantsi into oyibonileyo: nini, phi, nendlela abajonge ngayo umntwana nabantu abadala.
- Biza umgca woncedo wabantwana okanye amapolisa, okanye bhala ingxelo ngezantsi.
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Umntwana wakho uya kuya esikolweni esihle esixekweni.Cela igama nedilesi yesikolo, uze usifowunele ngokwakho.
Ndiza kukuhlawula ngoku. Umntwana wakho angayibuyisela ngokusebenza.Umntwana asiso sityala. Apho kuqala khona ubukhoboka babantwana.
Akudingeki ufowunele. Ndiya kulungisa yonke into.Gxininisa ekubeni kubekho iifowuni neendwendwe rhoqo ngeveki.
Ndiphe amaxwebhu. Ndiya kuwagcina ekhuselekile.Gcina ezasekuqaleni wena. Nika iikopi kuphela.
Usapho olutyebeleyo lufuna ukutshata nentombi yakho. Uya kuthumela imali ekhaya.Umtshato phambi kwe-18 wonakalisa abantwana. Lindani.
Ungaze uthumele umntwana nomntu ongakwaziyo ukumvavanya.
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