Kurinda abana

Mbere y’uko umwana asohoka mu rugo

Hari umuntu ushaka kujyana umwana ku ishuri, ku kazi, cyangwa ngo abone ubuzima bwiza? Banza ubisuzume.

• Amafaranga cyangwa impano ku mwana ashobora guhinduka amadeni bamuhoza akora kugira ngo ayishyure.
• Abacuruza abana akenshi ni abantu umuryango uzi gake: umuturanyi, umuvandimwe wa kure, umwarimu cyangwa umuhuza.
• Ishuri nyaryo rifite izina, aderesi na nimero ya telephone ushobora kwihamagarira.
• Nuhamagara cyangwa ugasura bikabananira, nta muntu uzamenya niba umwana yakomeretse cyangwa akoreshejwe akazi.
• Urifite impapuro z’umwana ni we ushobora kumugenzura. Bika wowe inyandiko z’umwimerere.
• Iyo ari kure y’urugo, umwana ntashobora gushaka ubufasha cyangwa kugaruka wenyine.
• Akenshi abana basezeranwa ishuri, hanyuma bagakora amasaha menshi badahabwa amafaranga cyangwa bahawe make cyane.
• Abantu b’inyangamugayo ntibasaba na rimwe ko urugendo rw’umwana rugirwa ibanga cyangwa kubeshya imyaka y’umwana.

Igenamigambi ry’umutekano w’umuryango

• Banza usure aho hantu, cyangwa usabe umuntu wizera uhari ahasure.
• Mufate amazina yuzuye, aderesi n’umubare wa telefoni w’uwo muntu n’aho hantu. Wowe ubwawe hamagara ishuri.
• Mwemeranye guhamagara buri cyumweru, kandi mujye mufitanye ijambo ry’ibanga umwana yavuga niba ari mu kaga.
• Bika ibyangombwa by’umwimerere by’umwana. Tanga kopi gusa.
• Fata ifoto isobanutse y’umwana mbere y’uko agenda.
• Mwigishe umwana kumenya umubare wawe wa telefoni ku mutwe, n’umubare wo guhamagara ubutabazi bw’abana.
• Ntuzemere amafaranga cyangwa inguzanyo ku mwana. Umwana si ideni.

Ibyangombwa n’ishuri birinda umwana

• Andikisha ivuka ry’umwana wese. Icyemezo cy’amavuko kigaragaza imyaka y’umwana: gifasha guhagarika gushyingira abana no gukora ku gahato, kandi gifasha umwana kubona ishuri, kwivuza n’ubufasha. Babaze ku biro by’inzego z’ibanze cyangwa ku kigo nderabuzima.
• Mugumishe abana mu ishuri. Mubaze ishuri cyangwa ibiro by’inzego z’ibanze ibyerekeye ubufasha bw’amafaranga y’ishuri, nko gukurirwaho amafaranga, amafunguro ku ishuri cyangwa inkunga ku miryango. Ibihugu byinshi birabigira.

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Gushyingira cyangwa gushaka uri munsi y’imyaka 18?

• Tegereza kugeza ku myaka 18. Indi myaka mike y’ishuri ishobora guhindura ubuzima bwose.
• Baza uwo musore cyangwa inkumi icyo ashaka, wenyine kandi nta gitutu.
• Vugana n’umwarimu, umukozi w’ubuzima, umuyobozi w’iyobokamana wizeye, cyangwa umurongo wo gufasha abana.
• Ntuzemere amafaranga, cyangwa kwishyurirwa ideni, ku mwana.
• Mu bihugu byinshi, amategeko ashyiraho imyaka 18 nk’imyaka yo gushyingirwa.

Umutekano muri game no mu biganiro

Imikino n’udusanduku tw’ibiganiro birashimisha. Abakuze bamwe babikoresha bategeka urubyiruko. Menya amayeri yabo:

• Abantu bari kuri interineti si ko buri gihe ari bo bavuga. Imyaka n’amafoto bishobora kuba iby’impimbano.
• Impano, diamonds, coins, skins cyangwa amafaranga ya telefone biturutse ku muntu utazi ni amayeri kugira ngo wiyumve ko umufitiye umwenda.
• Ubusaba kugumana ibanga utabibwiye ababyeyi si ubwirinzi.
• Ntukohereze na rimwe amafoto y’umubiri wawe, n’iyo yaba ari uwo ukunda. Amafoto ashobora kugirwa kopi no kugukoreshwa bakugirira ubwoba.
• Komeza ibiganiro imbere mu mukino cyangwa muri app. Witonde iyo umuntu ashaka ikiganiro cy’ibanga cyangwa video call.
• Ntukajye guhura n’umuntu mwamenyanye kuri interineti wenyine. Banza ubibwire umubyeyi.
• Buri gihe wemerewe kuvuga oya, gufunga no gutanga raporo. Ntiwite ku kuba waba ubanje kubaha umuntu ugutera ubwoba.
• Niba hari ikintu kigutera kubyina, bwira um mukuru wizewe. Ntuzahanwa.

Hari umuntu umpatira amafoto yanjye

Icya mbere: si ikosa ryawe, kandi nturi mu makosa. Abasore n’inkumi benshi babihura, kandi birahagarara.

• Ntukishyure kandi ntukohereze ikindi kintu na kimwe. Kwishyura bikunze gutera ko basaba ibindi byinshi.
• Hagarika gusubiza. Ntukavuge amagambo menshi cyangwa ngo usabe imbabazi.
• Fata screenshots z’ugutera ubwoba n’izina rya konte. Ntukamere screenshots z’ayo mafoto ubwawo.
• Funga (block) kandi utangaze (report) iyo konte muri porogaramu.
• Bwira umuntu mukuru wizewe uyu munsi: umubyeyi, umwarimu cyangwa uwo mu muryango wizeye.

Ushobora no kubibwira polisi cyangwa umurongo w’ifashamadidni ry’abana. Jyana screenshots zawe.

Umwana ashobora kuba ari mu kaga

Ibimenyetso byerekana ko umwana ashobora kuba acuruzwa cyangwa akoreshwa nabi:

• Akora amasaha menshi, nijoro, cyangwa aho kujya ku ishuri
• Umuntu mukuru ahora asubiriza umwana, cyangwa ntajya amureka wenyine
• Agaragara ko atinya, ashonje cyangwa ananiwe cyane, cyangwa afite ibikomere nta wabisobanura
• Abana n’abantu atari abo mu muryango kandi nta ho ahurira n’iwe
• Nta mpapuro ze bwite afite, cyangwa avuga ko afite umwenda
• Agenzurwa n’umuntu mukuru, mu ruhame cyangwa kuri interineti

Icyo gukora

• Niba umwana ari mu kaga ako kanya, hamagara nimero y’ubutabazi.
• Ntukahangare guhangana n’abakuru cyangwa kugerageza gukiza umwana wenyine. Bishobora kongera kumushyira mu kaga.
• Andika ibyo wabonye: igihe, aho byabereye, n’uko umwana n’abakuru basa.
• Hamagara umurongo w’ifashamadidni ry’abana cyangwa polisi, cyangwa andika raporo hasi hano.

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